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Admin managers need to tailor their communication styles to suit a variety of audiences since they often work with teams comprised of people from different backgrounds and with unique preferences and personalities. But even when leaders strive for clear and respectful communication with their teams, navigating complex conversations with tact can still be challenging.
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So, let’s take a look at how managers can help foster productive working relationships across diverse teams through effective verbal and written communication tips, active listening strategies, and a roadmap to professionally handle tough conversations.
We’ve all been in a situation where a simple misunderstanding shaped an unpleasant interaction, which is why clarity is important when it comes to business communication. Consider these tips to avoid ambiguity:
1. Know your “why.”
Before starting a verbal or written conversation, you first need to identify what the goal of the communication is. The saying “think before you speak” has stayed relevant for a reason! Knowing this will also help you clearly articulate your goal to the other person.
2. Stay respectful and empathetic.
It’s never acceptable to insult or use offensive words in a professional environment. If the topic is sensitive, it’s essential to check in with yourself to be sure you’re calm and ready to have a productive, respectful conversation.
It’s always better to wait, take a few deep breaths, and then come back to the conversation or email than try to push through if you’re not in a headspace that can be empathetic.
3. Practice your delivery.
Say your thoughts out loud to yourself or draft an email, then make improvements to be more concise and to the point. It’s natural to not get it “right” the first time, so give yourself the chance to revise.
Now let’s dive into the second part of communicating–the art of listening.
When you’re not speaking in a face-to-face conversation, you’re listening. Actively listening shows the other person you care, you’re invested in what they’re saying, and you respect their time.
Communication is more productive when you employ these techniques:
4. Give them your undivided attention.
Close your laptop, put your phone on silent, and pick a place where you won’t be interrupted. Remember to maintain eye contact and use nonverbal cues, such as nodding, to demonstrate you are fully present.
5. Validate before you ask for clarification.
If you don’t know what the other person is trying to convey, ask clarifying questions. But always start by first acknowledging what the other person is telling you. When you start with validation, it helps keep the lines of communication open and tells the other person that you are hearing them. Remember to keep a neutral tone and come from a place of curiosity.
6. Paraphrase to ensure you understand.
The easiest way to avoid a misunderstanding in professional communication is to paraphrase what you’re hearing back to the person you’re speaking with.
This can sound like, “What I’m hearing is that you need more time to finish the report,” or “It sounds like you’re excited to start the new project, but you need some help with finishing your current tasks.”
Now let’s cover some business communication skills for hard conversations.
In a managerial role, tough conversations are inevitable, so let’s review a few steps to help you confidently handle them.
7. Prepare and plan.
Before you engage in a difficult conversation, decide what you’d like to convey and what the outcome will be. Then outline how you’ll approach the topic, and consider the potential reactions and questions that will arise from the talk. It’s better to be over-prepared than caught off guard.
8. Keep your professional composure.
As a leader, being able to stay tactful and composed during a challenging conversation will help you maintain trust and credibility with the person. Keeping a calm tone, refraining from offensive language, and avoiding personal attacks is essential, but it’s easier said than done when emotions are at play.
If things get heated, take a few deep breaths and pause before speaking. Be prepared to calmly redirect the conversation back to the issue at hand instead of engaging in irrelevant topics.
9. Focus on the solution.
Instead of dwelling on the problem, stay focused on the solution. Difficult conversations can be hard to hear, so it’s important to reframe negative situations into opportunities for growth and collaboration.
If a conversation doesn’t go as planned, reflect on what you can do differently next time, and remember that effective communication takes practice.
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